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• 作者：。 发布时间：2012-11-28 20:37:43

  虽为网络小说，全部白描，乱伦部分写得既脏又真实，比日系类的中二黑暗派不知高出几个段位。

• 作者：橘酱 发布时间：2023-10-21 09:55:57

  作者掺杂着自己的感受 让人也不知叙事真假 不想继续看了

• 作者：废宅朋克少年遊 发布时间：2016-04-29 16:09:17

  （南大图书馆）老师的书，作为读物来说，质量还是很高的，用图引证都比较严谨规范，材料选取也比较全

• 作者：HH〇o● 发布时间：2022-11-27 23:20:33

  十来年前买的明信片，西递宏村的风景明信片。

  徽州古建筑。

• 作者：暗夜大佬 发布时间：2022-05-16 21:59:08

  这本书以照片及图片的形式来展现袁老奋斗与奉献的一生。整本书收录了300余幅珍贵的历史图像资料，从袁老的人生经历、成就，还有生活等多方位展示这位无双国士的一生，真可谓是既纯粹而又伟大。像袁老这样为国家、为人民做出巨大贡献的国家栋梁，他们是刻在历史丰碑上的人物，才是更值得我们去追的明星。

• 作者：卡卡饭司有个饭 发布时间：2024-02-19 21:01:24

  像行业老大哥在和你亲切唠嗑揭示内幕八卦，有点意思

• 意志力的最高境界

  作者：Hammer_ 发布时间：2012-08-07 13:15:35

  　

  1.

  　　

  一本看得无比艰辛的书，这本书描写了N个实验，例子和科学研究，占了全书内容的80%，典型的西方著作，学术背景深厚，词汇量跟不上会读的很苦。如果没耐性，可能直接跳过前面的章节，跳到最后“Conclusion”的章节，最重要的都在最后章节囊括了。

  　　

  这本大量的实验会把人弄晕，但是无可否认本书的价值，干货很多，和之前读过的<Master>，<How life imitates chess>所说的观点有相通之处，顿时有种融会贯通的感觉，更加坚定了自己需要掌握的理念。

  　　

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  <Willpower>中印象最深的几个概念：

  　　

  　　

  1. 意志力是有限的，用一点少一点（所以一天计划要完成好几样你觉得很费力很厌烦的任务，你会很有挫败感）

  　　

  　　

  2. 每一项任务你都会使用同样的意志力

  　　

  　　

  3.意志力和睡眠，葡萄糖含量，外在环境，内在因素（人性）都有关系

  　　

  4. 能完美运用“意志”的人是那些根本没意识到自己在运用意志的人，自律的最高境界是不用自律，关键在于培养良好的习惯。

  　　

  记住一点，我们那些self-improvement的计划，单单其中一个就会消耗你大量的能量和意志，

  　　　

  你或许可以短期内同时做几个

  　　　　

  但是长期下去，必败无疑，只会给你带来挫败感。 （我自己也一样，规定自己在某段时间看很多书，写书评，还要好好学专业课，每晚都要去健身，现在还要花时间看林书豪）

  　　

  Each time you try to follow one, you reduce your capacity for all the others

  　　

  所以，人们在新年做的New Year’s resolutions，作者认为，没有人有足够意志力完成你的“新年清单”，聪明的做法是，永远都没做新年计划，把任务列出首先次序，一样一样完成。

  　　

  A better plan is to make one resolution and stick to it. That’s challenge enough.

  　　

  3.

  　　

  　　

  我们都要记住这么一个道理，

  　　

  　　

  你需要运用到“意志力”去做事，说明你还是处于比较低的层次，例如读书，跑步，写作，健身，学英语等等。

  　　

  　　

  意志力是可以锻炼并且增长的，The more the body suffers, the more the spirit flowers.

  　　

  　　

  其实这其中的关键在于，培养良好的习惯。

  　　

  　　

  一切自然为之就是意志力的最高境界，当你当初需要用毅力去做的事已经成为一种习惯，你在做那件事所需要的“意志力”为0，你的意志力就可以运用在其他的地方

  　　

  　

  余此类推，当一切都成为习惯，如作者所说，你的意志力就可以用到emergencies上面，你的生活将变得有条理，规律，并且更加美好。

  　　

  　　

  最后，作者总结，

  　　

  　　

  The Future Of Willpower------MORE GAIN, LESS STRAIN

  　　

  　　

  　　

  　　

  As long as you don’t procrastinate

  　　

  　　

  　　

  2012.2.22

  　　

  By Hammer

  　　

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  　　readingnote:

  　　

  　　

  　　

  四大诱惑---吃，睡，贪玩，性快感

  　　

  The most commonly resisted desire in the beeper study was the urge to eat, followed by the urge to sleep, and then by the urge for leisure, like taking a break from work by doing a puzzle or game instead of writing a memo. Sexual urges were next on the list of most-resisted desires, a little ahead of urges for other kinds of interactions, like checking e-mail and social-networking sites, surfing the Web, listening to music, or watching television

  　　

  　　

  　　

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  牛B的理论和想法不难，难的是找到一种聪明的做法证明你的理论

  　　

  　　In psychology, brilliant theories are cheap. People like to think of the field advancing thanks to some thinker’s startling new insight, but that’s not how it usually works. Coming up with ideas isn’t the hard part. Everyone has a pet theory for why we do what we do, which is why psychologists get sick of hearing their discoveries dismissed with “Oh, my grandmother knew that.” Progress generally comes not from theories but from someone finding a clever way to test a theory, as Walter Mischel did. He and his colleagues weren’t theorizing about self-regulation—in fact, they didn’t even discuss their results in terms of self-control or willpower until many years later

  　　

  　　

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  要对自己严厉，吃一支烟不会危害你健康，吃一个蛋糕你还不会肥，但是你要严肃对待每次“违规”

  　　

  　　Will involves treating the current situation as part of a general pattern. Smoking one cigarette will not jeopardize your health. Taking heroin once will not make you addicted. One piece of cake won’t make you fat, and skipping one assignment won’t ruin your career. But in order to stay healthy and employed, you must treat (almost) every episode as a reflection of the general need to resist these temptations. That’s where conscious self-control comes in, and that’s why it makes the difference between success and failure in just about every aspect of life

  　　

  　　

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  自律的作用---令你生活更加轻松

  　　

  　　Acquiring self-control isn’t as magically simple as the techniques in modern self-help books, but neither does it have to be as grim as the Victorians made it out to be. Ultimately, self-control lets you relax because it removes stress and enables you to conserve willpower for the important challenges. We’re confident that this book’s lessons can make your life not just more productive and fulfilling but also easier and happier. And we can guarantee that you will not have to endure any sermons against bare ankles

  　　

  　　

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  意志力像肌肉，可锻炼，和一次只做一样任务（太多你后期绝对会犯错）

  　　

  　　

  Willpower looked like much more than a metaphor. It seemed to be like a muscle that could be fatigued through use

  　　

  　　

  1.You have a finite amount of willpower that becomes depleted as you use it.

  　　

  2. You use the same stock of willpower for all manner of tasks

  　　

  Focus on one project at a time. If you set more than one self-improvement goal, you may succeed for a while by drawing on reserves to power through, but that just leaves you more depleted and more prone to serious mistakes later.

  　　

  When people have to make a big change in their lives, their efforts are undermined if they are trying to make other changes as well

  　　

  Above all, don’t make a list of New Year’s resolutions，No one has enough willpower for that list

  　　

  Each time you try to follow one, you reduce your capacity for all the others

  　　

  A better plan is to make one resolution and stick to it. That’s challenge enough. There will be moments when that will still seem like one resolution too many, but perhaps you can persevere

  　　

  “You know, humans are capable of incredible things,” she says. “If you simply decide that you’re not going to move, you just don’t move.

  　　

  　　

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  再次强调，不要一次定太多目标，那不现实：

  　　

  　　

  　　For most of us, though, the problem is not a lack of goals but rather too many of them. We make daily to-do lists that couldn’t be accomplished even if there were no interruptions during the day, which there always are. By the time the weekend arrives, there are more unfinished tasks than ever, but we keep deferring them and expecting to get through them with miraculous speed. That’s why, as productivity experts have found, an executive’s daily to-do list for Monday often contains more work than could be done the entire week.

  　　

  We can be even more unrealistic in setting longer-term goal

  　　

  First, you worry a lot.

  　　

  Second, you get less done

  　　

  Third, your health suffers, physically as well as mentally.

  　　

  　　

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  　　做月计划，因为你可调节：

  　　

  　　Life rarely goes exactly according to plan, and so the daily plans can be demoralizing as soon as you fall off schedule. With a monthly plan, you can make adjustments. If a delay arises one day, your plan is still intact

  　　

  　　

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  很精辟，剩女产生的原因啊，再挑后面就没好货了！！

  　　

  　　

  Closing a door on an option is experienced as a loss, and people are willing to pay a price to avoid the emotion of loss,” Ariely says. Sometimes that makes sense, but too often we’re so eager to keep options open that we don’t see the long-term price that we’re paying—or that others are paying. When you won’t settle for less than a perfect mate, you end up with no one. When parents can never say no to projects at the office, their children suffer at home. When a judge can’t bring himself to make a hard decision about parole, he’s quite literally closing the door on the prisoner’s cell.

  　　

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  重复+练习，这两个字就是之前《Mastery》全书要强调的两个词：

  　　

  　　

  　　Getting your brain wired into little goals and achieving them, that helps you achieve the bigger things you shouldn’t be able to do,” he said. “It’s not just practicing the specific thing. It’s always making things more difficult than they should be, and never falling short, so that you have that extra reserve, that tank, so you know you can always go further than your goal. For me that’s what discipline is. It’s repetition and practice.

  　　

  　　

  　　

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  长远的目光！！！

  　　

  　　Yet self-control improved among people who were encouraged to think in high-level terms, and got worse among those who thought in low-level terms. Different measures were used in assorted experiments, but the results were consistent. After engaging in high-level thinking, people were more likely to pass up a quick reward for something better in the future. When asked to squeeze a handgrip, they could hold on longer. The results showed that a narrow, concrete, here-and-now focus works against self-control, whereas a broad, abstract, long-term focus supports it.

  　　

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  　　Exercising self-control in one area seemed to improve all areas of life.

  　　

  　　All in all, these findings point toward the remarkable benefits of exercising willpower. Without realizing it, people gained a wide array of benefits in areas of their lives that had nothing to do with the specific exercises they were performing. And the lab tests provided an explanation: Their willpower gradually got stronger, so it was less readily depleted. Focusing on one specific form of self-control could yield much larger benefits, just as self-experimenters from Ben Franklin to David Blaine had maintained. The experiments showed that you didn’t have to start off with the exceptional self-control of a Franklin or a Blaine to benefit: As long as you were motivated to do some kind of exercise, your overall willpower could improve, at least over the course of the experiment

  　　

  　　

  　　

  俞敏洪就说过，成功做过一件事， 你就会相信自己会成功做成以后的事， 这是你自己为自己建立过的高度， 你就是比没做成过什么事的人要牛那么一点，

  　　

  　　

  样的小成功不停累积，自信油然而生。

  　　

  　　

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  最后，拿作者全书完结的一段话作为结尾：

  　　

  　　

  　　

  Our willpower has made us the most adaptable creatures on the planet, and we’re rediscovering how to help one another use it.

  　　

  　　

  We’re learning, once again, hat willpower is the virtue that sets our species apart,

  　　

  　　

  　　

  and that makes each one of us strong

  　　

  　　

  　　

  　　

  End

• 人脉秘诀：建立你的多元朋友圈

  作者：warfalcon 发布时间：2017-08-17 12:56:53

  

  今天的话题是人脉，在中国人脉有非常特殊的意义，不少人对于人脉的观点属于两极分化，要是过于夸张，认为人脉无所不能，要么就是极端鄙视，会学合理的运用人脉并不困难。

  在读公关大佬刘希平写的《天下没有陌生人》时，对里面的一些内容有点感触，这本书算不上特别系统，大都是一些人际沟通方面的常识，但写得很贴地气。

  1、用自己的三观来交朋友

  以前跟政府机关、国企打了10多年的交道，同时也认识不少外企、咨询公司的人，在离职之前两个手机通信录最多的时候有6000、7000人，以半年为限，有三分之一的人会经常产生各种联系，见面、电话或网络都有，这还只是跟工作有关。还不包括网络认识和朋友、同学、家人之类的关系。

  有段时间一直很头疼，应该如何跟不同的人相处，选择哪些人做为朋友。因为接触的人越多越发现，不同人的三观差异极大。很多对方认为好的东西，你可能完全接受不了。

  比如有几个认识很多年的销售朋友，他们打单或招待朋友的方式，是去夜总会找小姐。而这种方式我完全无法接受。后来就发现，选择朋友的最好方式就是，通过自己的三观来选择。

  跟一个人接触一段时间之后，决定是否应该跟这个人成为朋友时，用三观来判断是最快速的，经过一、二回一对一的深入沟通，很容易就能判断出对方的三观是否跟你一致。这个朋友是否应该进一步接触。

  2、把时间花在最有价值的地方

  把自己认识的朋友做个排序，分清重要性。

  朋友之间要互相帮忙，千万不要等有事时再联系。

  平时在朋友圈、聊天或见面，顺便了解下对方的近况，把有用的东西做个记录，如正在做什么，是否需要帮忙、爱好、生日之类特殊日期，有机会就约个饭。

  对那么没事几年都不联系，只有遇到事情才找你的人尽量拒绝，离他们远一点。千万不要做一个好老人，让所有人都满意。

  同样是找你帮助，当然是按重要程序来划分优先级，尽量把自己的时间花上最有价值的地方，但也别过于死板。象偶尔遇到重要事情时或者约到重要人士见面时，哪怕提前约好朋友见面，可以向他们说下情况，别错失机会。但这种情况一、二次足以，别次次如此。

  3、跨出交友“舒适区”，扩大你的朋友圈

  在年轻的时候，特别是到了一个陌生的城市或公司，常常不知道应该如何打开自己的圈子。

  以前写过圈子系列，可以通过各种爱好、社群来增加机会，快速认识新朋友。

  但要注意不要身边都是相同性质的的人，经常多结交不同层次的人，才能有更多的机会。

  同事、同行业或相关爱好的人是比较容易沟通，但这些人可能跟你思维方式完全一致，非常遇到思维误区而不自知。而多认识一些不同圈子的人有不同的人脉，对你的思维方式、眼界和看问题的方式都会有一些触动和扩展。

  比如你是学理科，多认识一些学文或学艺术的。自己是文科的，主动认识一些理性或逻辑思维特别强的朋友，你会发现用不同的方式看问题，思维会开阔不少。

  最近几年认识不少不同行业的朋友，职业五花八门，做什么的都有。

  4、不要让人觉得你的目的性那么强

  结交朋友的时候，不要带着很功利的心态。谁都不傻，很容易就能看得出来。

  在结交朋友的时候，不要报着马上就能帮助自己的态度，把眼光放长远一点，交朋友别从利益出发。别太在意背景、财力、地位，或者“有没有用”，你觉得对方值得成为朋友，三观一致就好。

  在力所能及的情况下，多去帮朋友的忙，别求回报。但要注意对方别总是占你的便宜，从来不付出。

  5、如何加深与他人的关系

  认人不难，但认识之后，两个不同领域的人之间怎样产生交情，怎样和对方维持关系呢？

  应该尽快找到你们之间的共同点，可以是人、地方、爱好或者是一个话题、电影或书。一旦找到这个点，能聊起来，双方就会很容易加深印象，谈得深入，越聊越开心。

  观察一下对方的微信朋友圈、微博就能发现很多有用的内容。

  从了解对方的爱好开始或需求开始，多试几次很容易就能建立起交情。

  扩展阅读：

  如何扩大交际圈子，多认识一些同一个城市里有意思的人？

  如何扩大交际圈子，多认识一些同一个城市里有意思的人？（2）

  如何扩大交际圈子？（3）利用休活来改变人生

  如何扩大交际圈子（4）怎样拥有超强人气

  如何在人多的稍陌生聚会场合表现得自信、自如、外向？